How to gain confidence

   

  Importance of confidence :

         Today many people suffer from lack of confidence, there are millions of people who don't feel confident around several people on several occasion, and even if they try to act confident in the end of the day they just end up making a fool out of themselves.It is no mystery that confident people get more social recognition than non confident people they get more friends,get better partner and many benefits on their professional life.
          Around yourselves,everyday you see people with and successful lives.Everyone of us want to have successful life, and confidence is a key to have a better and easy life. So not wasting any further time lets get in to it

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1. Impress your self

Confident people know their value because they respect themselves, and why they do that because they got impressed by the work they do daily, that’s the 1st point here you should impress your self. By impressing your selves you get to know your value and started to respect your self . Then what is impressing yours self mean, it means you should do chores that are important but currently not your priority, by getting the work done you came to know that nothing is hard for you and you can do anything you want. This  can be anything from getting your car serviced  or doing the assignment which is important but you have time in your hand to deliver it, the work can be anything. This will help you get productive and make you confident in yourself,  that you can do any task at hand if you desire to get it done, this impress your ego and make your attitude much more positive towards  yourself .  

So every day do different things set goals for yourself act on it and impress yourself

2.Go out

To become confident you have to get out of your dark room and meet new people apart from your friends. This will make you more sociable and you won’t be afraid to express your views in front of others, so go to social gathering, go out with friends, go to trips on new areas and explore the nature take part in events, stand on a stage and giving a speech if not just join a group and speak with them try to talk to random people in gatherings, in yours school, at work or any other place you visit and get to know them. It can be so simple like asking time or talking about the event itself, you don’t need to talk for hours no just a simple five minutes conversation will do the trick, this will make you more confident in yourself because now you are familiar with the situation and can talk to random people at random occasion and your conversation skills are good you are not afraid to talk to random people any more this will also get you some information about the person or the surrounding you are in every time you meet a new person you will get to know something new you are become knowledgeable.  now every time you meet someone new  you have something to tell him which will get you going with the flow. Now this will lead us to our 3rd point which is become knowledgeable.

3.       Become knowledgeable

Becoming knowledgeable is not like becoming a book worm. what we mean is you should have practical knowledge which is a trait of a confident person. A confident person is always calm because he is in control and he get the control of the situation because he knows what to do by having enough knowledge about his surrounding and situation. by gathering practical knowledge you will be confident about the upcoming events and will be able to handle them this will generate confidence in yourself.
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4.        Be independent.

Well becoming independent is a thing we all should do. By becoming independent we mean that you should perform your duties alone, try doing your stuff alone and not with anyone else. Try to do it by yourself don’t take anyone’s help for doing it. This will give you a sense of pride that your are enough for yourself and you can handle things on your own. Start with simple  thing and then start doing it on the hard level by doing this you will become much more confident by the time passes.

5.       Fake it until you make it.

This is the easiest step of all what you have to do is just show others that you are confident to come up as a confident guy you have to act confident, you can do that simple by being presentable, showing confident body language, speaking confidently, making eye contact.

By being presentable you show that you respect yourself and people respect those who respect themselves, by showing confident body language you send out vibes that you are confident in yourself, by doing this you will become familiar to the environment of confidence and it will take you a step ahead of all those who are confident but failed to show it.

    Try applying this tricks for one month or less only two weeks and you will notice the difference in yourself.